Orgasms During Sex?

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My bf and I have sex a bit. We’ve been together for over 2 years. However he can’t make me orgasm. I can do it myself but only with toys. Does anyone have any tips I can try to get him to get me to orgasm? He feels really bad about not being able to. I mean sex is great and it feels really good and he always finishes. I’d just like to be able to as well.

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Tell him what to do! I’ve asked my wife so many times what could I do to be better in bed. I take the advice and if she wants me to do something different then I do something different

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If you can do it yourself with toys you could suggest him using toys on you during sex as well

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Maybe you need to stop using the toys they are a crutch. Instead maybe while hes fycking you encourage him to stimulate you clit.

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I know for me it takes a lot to get me to orgasm through penetration and my husband just can’t last the amount of time it needs (because it’s a lot). We tend to do a lot of foreplay or even use toys during sex. It depends on what feels good to you. Communication is definitely key too and telling him what you like or don’t like.

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Tell him what to or try different positions. I’ve heard legs over shoulder works for a lot of people

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I would suggest stimulating your clit during sex. For me, having sex from the side allows me to have more access to my clit.

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Have you tried riding him? I was never able to orgasm during sex unless I used a toy or my hand. One day I finally decided to ride him and now its my favorite way to orgasm. It takes a few tries but once you find your sweet spot its smooth sailing from there. That way he still gets you off even though you're doing the work

Orgasms During Sex?

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