Hi all:

I am 23 and always feel like I am a rebound and I am not too sure why. I was in a short term relationship with my ex bf for about 7 months before breaking up bc he wasn’t over his ex that he had dated for like 3 years. We got together within three months of their break up. On the other hand, after that i met and started a sexual relationship with another guy who had just gotten out of a three year relationship, only for him to get back with his ex & the sexual relationship ended all within like 5 months. I just am drained with trying to date, as I feel that I am always a rebound.

What are some ways y’all practice self care? Lately, I have been doing lyra fitness which is really fun and takes my mind of men and dating. I feel left out because many people my age are in relationships and sometimes it makes me want a relationship.