He’s being a #1 ass!!

I wish it was as easy as it is to leave but it ain’t when you have no where to go! Today my husband has been nothing but a GIANT A**hole to me blaming me for him having a bad day at work and all that saying I don’t care that he’s having a bad day and that he tired as long as I get to sit on my ass at home doing nothing so I guess laundry dishes cooking taking care of kids is nothing, so I told him if he’s just going to take it out on me not to text me in breaks but no he had to text me all day blaming me for EVERYTHING and just saying mean things to me as if I don’t do a lot of stuff for him. We have been together for 16 yrs married 7 and have 2 kids ages 4yrs and 12 yrs old and the last 5 yrs have been nothing but arguing and him calling me names. People say leave him but it’s harder them it is to just do it when you have nothing no where to go or anything.

No family around close they are all 2 or more hours away. 4 yr old in in part time preschool for only 2.5 hrs 4 days a week.