No friends

So im a first time mother (kinda)

With an almost 1 year old...

My partner has an almost 5 year old son to his ex..

I am very lonely and have no friends, I've tried making mom friends and joining mothers group but no one wants me around.

I'm not sure if it's legitimately because they don't want me around or because my partners ex who has alot of friends and very well know has talked shit about me.

We used to be bestfriends, but lately she's taken our time away from their son and won't let us see him.

And I honestly feel she's talked bad about me to the young mothers.

I don't know what to do, I'm so lonely and I'm at breaking point.

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Gi

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Hi mama! Don’t let that discourage you. Motherhood can be pretty lonely and I remember a time that I didn’t have any friends myself. To be quite honest, I barely have any friends who have babies. There’s usually no one to talk to about how hard motherhood truly is. Just remember that you are enough & the right people will come around at the right time. If those other mommies are going off what someone else says about you WITHOUT getting to know you, then those aren’t the kind of people you should want around you. Keep your head up, you’ll be okay. We tend to become very sensitive and fragile during motherhood, but just remember that you’re not dependent of those other women. Socializing is very important, but in the meantime, try to keep yourself entertained, maybe watch some mommy YouTube videos or look up blogs. You’re going to be alright.

be

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You must live in a small town I’m guessing?

Lo

Lor • Dec 7, 2019
I live in the capital of Australia so yes and no