Okay,my partner and i,have been trying for 8 mths.well,long story short.my dad passed away 2 wks ago.after we buried him.i wasn't feeling good.it was the worse feeling and the head aches w sensitive to lights and noise..I went to work and came home barely moving.i went to clinic and all my vitals were very low.doctors started me on ivy fluids and rushed me to the ER.WHERE THEY DID ALL KINDS OF TEST AND DID A SPINAL TAP..I TESTED POSITIVE FOR VIRAL MENINGITIS. nw,do you think it's safe to keep trying?