I'm pregnant and he has a wife. We confronted him!

I feel so stupid! 😭 i can't stop crying. I met this amazing, tall and gorgeous guy. I didn't know he was married! I swear on my unborn baby I didn't even have a clue there was anyone else

We met a year ago, he's a banker so travelled a lot. He'd spend 2 weeks out of the month with me and then go to work for another 2 weeks. He made a lot of money so I never thought for one minute he had another life.

How could I be taken for a fool? I fell madly in love with him. He told me he loved me. We'd even planned on kids and getting married. He met my whole family and they fell in love with him too.

He told me his mum and dad died in a car accident when he was little so it was just him and his brother, I'd met his brother twice and I got on well with him.

So I found out I was pregnant when he was away 'working' and was so excited to tell him. I waited til he got home.

He came in at 10 in the morning and I jumped on him, contact is terrible for the 2 weeks away (I now know why) why he blamed it on being busy constantly. I told him we was having a baby and he went pale. But told me he was excited. We spent the next 2 week's talking about how excited we were.

It came to the time he had to go away again. A week into him being away, I text him 'I can't wait to have this baby with you, you're going to make the best father. We love you'

About 10 minutes later he rang me, so I answered with my usual hey baby you ok. But it was a woman on the other end.

She asked who I was and I said I was Dylan's girlfriend who was she 🙄

She told me she was his wife, they have 2 children and preparing any day for their third.

My heart hurt, she asked how we met. I told her everything, how we've been together over a year, so on. She thanked me. She knew I didn't know about her, she didn't know about me either.

They live an hour away car ride (which I didn't know!!) She asked to meet me, I agreed. I felt so guilty. I was in love with this guy, still am.

So the next day I met her and showed her pictures and texts and she thanked me and asked if I wanted to confront him together. My heart sunk knowing I'd have to see him again

So we go to hers and she makes me a drink, we sit talking about being pregnant and he walks in.

His face drops. He starts crying begging for forgiveness. I have no idea who he was talking to as he was looking at both of us 🙄

She tells him she wants a divorce and he's still crying.

But he looks at me and says it's me he wants, he couldn't leave her because of the kids and then she got pregnant.

His wife looked at me and rolled her eyes which made me burst out with laughter. I was distraught but knew me and my baby deserved better. So I said no thanks, and I walked out.

His wife messaged me later that night and thanked me for everything. She also said she'd like it if our children could grow up knowing each other. This woman has the kindest heart.

For him, I'm ignoring his texts and calls. He came to my house but I called the police to have him removed. I'll deal with him once the baby is born. But for now I need to tend to my broken heart.

UPDATE:

I've read every single comment on here and just want to say thank you all so much for the support and lovely comments.

Unfortunately this isn't fake. I really wish it was but it's not 😭 I haven't got the imagination to make up stories. This is actually my life.

And to the people saying I drank alcohol because I said she made us a drink. We are both pregnant. I haven't touched alcohol in 10 years. She gave me water 🙄 but thank you for thinking that low of me.

I still haven't spoken to him and it's been 3 weeks since I found out. I haven't spoken to his wife since. I had a scan yesterday and I'm currently 10 weeks 2 days which is further than I anticipated. I'm just excited for the future now

ANOTHER UPDATE

this will be my last update, Rebecca rang today to ask if she could name me as the other woman in the divorce settlement. I said of course. In London, if you cheat on your spouse your spouse is entitled 95% of your belonging and money. She has all the proof she needed when I sent all the pictures and texts.

The court will probably get a hold of me and I'll have to explain in detail our relationship. I still haven't seen him but I miss him so much. I threw all his clothes out.

Yesterday Rebecca was telling me how HIS PARENTS rang her to ask what had happened. Turns out, his brother told them what he knew. They were distraught as they love her and the kids. They now know I'm pregnant and they're not happy and asked Rebecca for my number. She didn't give it to them. I will go through the courts when my baby is born and set up a contact plan with its dad.