It’ll happen when the time is right! Right?!

Question

Man, this is depressing. I had no idea trying for a baby would be this hard. Everyone else is pregnant and having babies. Kinda just puts me down in the dumps. I know other ladies are going through this too. Just had to vent. ☹️

Answer

Never could have imagined how hard ttc was going to be. I just wanted to let you know that you are not alone.
Don’t be afraid to talk to your doctor. People will tell you a year, don’t wait wait that long. That’s insurance talk. You know when you are doing all you can (bbt, opks, healthy diets, etc).
At 8 mo ttc I asked my pcp (not gyno!) to run blood work. Turns out I have hypothyroidism. This got us to a fertility specialist soon after. My husband and I both had a full work up: blood tests, genetic blood test, hsg for me, and sperm analysis for him. We were diagnosed with male infertility by the year mark with a plan: 3 rounds of clomid while my husband worked with a urologist then ivf (icsi). 
We did ivf in April and due next month with a baby boy. We will be forever grateful for my pcp and fertility specialist who listened to us.

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I know, I feel this soooooooo often. We have been tested and nothing they can find so far that is causing us to not conceive. I hate hearing, all in God's time, or it will happen when it happens, or just stop trying and it'll happen I know they mean well and have nothing to say but honestly I would rather them not say anything that to hear that shit again. Them preaching in high school that if you have sex you'll get pregnant so easy kinda feels like a lie. It's not easy to get pregnant at all.

It’ll happen when the time is right! Right?!

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