We are LDR and have been for the whole relationship. Hes a realist and I'm more of a romantic and sometimes our different personalities dont get a long.

Things are getting harder and I feel that at this point we should really be talking seriously about closing the gap. Were both committed and know that we want a future together but the only conversation I get is "soon" or "not anytime soon" which are totally different answers..

I'm just getting frustrated and I'm trying not to be pushy about anything because it leads to fights.

Hes got some legal things to finish up where hes at and that's supposedly what is holding up everything but he just sprung on me that he has a job interview today. I feel like if the gap was going to close "soon" then why get a new job and then have to get another one when he moves?

I dont want to feel like I'm wasting my time because I do love him but the unknown is starting to really get to me 😥

So the job interview is at 7pm...what kind of government agency has job interviews that late in the evening. I work for a government agency and everything shuts down at like 5pm. My gut isn't liking this at all..its usually never wrong. I don't want to believe it though. I've never had a suspicion of him doing anything behind my back and why make up a job interview as an excuse if that's what is going on? I feel like I'm making myself paranoid but something just doesn't seem right..

I've found out that the "interview" is with a female and is being done at starbucks..wtf is going on..