“What are we??”

Question

Ok I’ve been seeing this guy for almost 7 months he has yet to bring up the convo about a relationship sometimes I think he’s intimidated to ask me but that’s still no excuse he’s a grown ass man.. should I bring up the convo or should I just cut him cold turkey because it’s been 7 months and if he really wanted to be with me he would.

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Why is it up to him? It seems like you’re expecting a lot out of him without doing anything yourself. With everything you’re saying about him, the same could be said about you.

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If you were a 16 year old girl writing this I would understand, not from a grown woman

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Sounds like he’s in it for the wrong reasons. If a man wants u he’ll claim u and make u his, period. He’s been stringing u along for 7 months, stop wasting ur time. If he wanted more from u he would have made it clear along time ago. Then again ur a grown women u should have spoke up way before too.

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If i were you I would bing it up. Cutting him off cold turkey accomplished nothing except for running away from your situation. You shouldn’t just wait around hoping he initiates things like this. If you want answers than ask! If you don’t like the answer than you leave. He’s a grown ass man but you are also a grown ass woman!

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My SO never directly asked me also. I need someone to be very direct. So after two years I asked “Am I your girlfriend or what?” And he was like “What? Of course” in a shocked way lol.

“What are we??”

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