Was I wrong?

One of my good friends is a guy, and he’s gay. He doesn’t “seem” gay though so people are usually surprised when they find out he’s gay. From day 1 of this friendship, my boyfriend has been against it and extremely jealous acting. I’ve told him time and time again that he’s gay, and even if he wasn’t I don’t like him like that. I’m in love with my boyfriend, we have been together for almost 6 years.

Anyway, my friend recently broke up with his boyfriend because he found out he was cheating, and they had tickets together to go to a concert. Since they broke up my friend asked me if I wanted to go with him instead, and I said of course. I am a huge fan of the band, but most importantly, my friend has been extremely depressed since his ex cheated and I wanted to have a good night out. The concert was 3 hours away but my boyfriend made it clear that if I was going, we were not to stay at a hotel/needed to come straight home.

Well after the concert we were both extremely tired and decided it would be dangerous for us to drive home, so I said we needed to get a hotel. My boyfriend called me a total of 15 times throughout the concert and I had to turn my phone off. When I turned it back on I had almost 100 messages from him freaking out/cussing at me. I called him and he said he was at my house waiting for me to get home. I told him we were going to get a hotel because it was 2am and we were so tired. He told me I better get my ass home or he would be breaking up.

My friend heard my boyfriend screaming at me and I started crying so he took the phone from me and told my boyfriend to back off. My boyfriend called my friend a “faggot” and told him to stay out of it. My friend ended up hanging up on my boyfriend and shut my phone off. He said he’s abusive and I deserve better.

We ended up getting a hotel and decided to stay for 2 more nights. We made a vacation out of it and had the time of our lives. I kept my phone off for the majority of the time and haven’t texted my boyfriend at all since. Was I wrong?