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Honestly, sometimes it's best to let arguments go. I used to be the exact same way as you. I always had to have an answer and a resolution right then and there. That's not always the case, sweetie! Sometimes things are better if you just let it go and move on from it. Now if he's cheating on you or doing things that really truely hurt you...that's another story. But every couple argues and fights. The best advice I can give is to pick your battles. Next time you guys are in an argument, think to yourself if this is a small conflict that you can just let go and move on from...and if it is, then sometimes us women have to step up and be the bigger person and say ok baby, you know what...lets just let this go. We disagree and that's ok. You also need to learn to love yourself. There are always going to be certain things you dislike about yourself...everyone has insecurities... But don't let them control your life. We are all beautiful in our own way, and everyone has something on their body that they are unhappy with. Embrace your beauty. And if your man isn't making you feel beautiful, then you need to find someone else that will. Good luck to you, honey.
A lot of swearing sorry.. I need to get this out...
I've been telling so alone with dealing with my problems... My boyfriend makes me admit what it is we argue a lot and long then when we calm down he'll say" let's just drop it?" I don't want to but I say yes and I really fucking hurts me because he never fixes them he just pushes them aside, he gets mad when I don't say what's wrong then he don't even try to fix all the fucking things I've told him... It's Isley about him and other girls, he not cheating or anything, I'm just vary vary insecure.. And he knows that but he still talks about the girls at his school, when he never talks about in that way ever, he's been following all of his ex's on Instagram, I told him it bothers me so fucking much he said he'd delete it but it's been to fucking weeks and it's still there.. And there's this teacher at his school that is vary touchy and flirty with him my best friend sent me a picture of her arm around him close to his body ... Just lately I've been feeling so unattractive unwanted and not feeling how I used to with him.. I feel like he's sick of me.. We've been together for 1 1/2 years I love him so damn much I tell him every day and he says it back more than me but he doesn't know how emotionally unstable and damaged I am.. I'm so scared...
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Going through the same. My boyfriend pushes our arguments aside. He either goes to bed or says he's leaving or done with the argument and it bothers me so bad. If I talk to him about anything I get nothing back. He doesn't say anything and it's so irritating I've told him to stop doing that and just talk to me and maybe we will get somewhere but he doesn't care and continues to do it. So we get nothing solved. My boyfriend doesn't have social media because he likes to do exactly what your man is doing and he can't be faithful or delete the girls off of anything so when we break up he gets right back on it and talks to all the girls on everything. I don't trust him because he's broke that a lot. I don't see us lasting much longer because I've had enough of everything!!!
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