Sex doesn’t feel like much for me except a feeling of being full of something . Only rarely does it feel amazing and I always try to recreate it using those positions but have no luck .

My husbands penis a very girthy and is about 7-8 inches

My vagina is very small

Sometimes I feel like my vagina hole is ripping when we have sex . One finger barely fits in their so I’m surprised every time he gets it in .. lol

When he fingers me it can feel really good so why can’t I get the same impact with intercourse ?

Is he just too big ? I have sex toys and I can climax from using them but for some reason it takes me longer to climax in his presence then when I’m alone . Is my vagina shy ? Only once have I ever felt like I may come from sex .

PS: I still enjoy sex , I account this to women being mental when it comes to sex and less physical but I want the physical satisfaction!!

Anyone have a similar experience / advice ?