Need some feed back yall; what's your response when you tell your boyfriend "go hang out with your friends babe, I'm going to the city to do some Christmas shopping and have dinner with my brother" (we live 45 minutes away from the "city" aka small town lol) - anyways I come home at like 930, and he and his bud are here getting shittered. & when I asked him, he said he continues to keep drinking that they will go downstairs. I'm a little upset because we litterally just had a massive fight about his drinking, and well because it's a thursday and I work in the morning. But no biggy I went to bed, put some ear plugs in.

This guy, decided it was a smart move to get up and leave to his friends place without saying anything to me, with me waking up at 2am not knowing where he was. I still dont know if he actually went to his buddies house. If he made it there safe or not. Its blizzarding where we are. Called no answer, texted still no answer of course. I'm obviously livid. & ready to tear his ass up a new one because I'm so sick of having the same conversations about his drinking. We have a baby on the way. & he seems to think he doesnt need to slow down. He has gotten better with communicating with me, and when drinking not getting completely wasted but this "immature" decision I can not handle nor will I put up with it.

What would you guys say to him? Without loosing your damn shit lol I'm trying this thing of not yelling all the time because I believe I've stressed this baby out enough 😭 but enough say to get my point across.