Just can’t

Don’t think I can do this his house is a state and yesterday I washed up this morning he says he appreciates me clearing up but that I need to be careful with his coffee cups there’s a chip in one of them and they’re collectibles. I’m thinking to myself well they were in the sink for 3 days anything could’ve happened to them. Is this reaction making any sense now I’m wondering what his reaction will be when the baby eventually breaks something? Is this just me or is something really wrong here??