Does anyone else have a hard time balancing being hopeful/ excited at the possibility of getting pregnant this month but also being realistic that it might not happen and trying to be okay with that too?

We are only on month 5 of trying, so it hasn’t been too long, but finding the balance is hard. We miscarried about a year ago, and have a lot of close friends/ relatives that started when we did and are now expecting, id love to have kids close in age, but trying to be okay with whenever it happens. 💗