Idk what to do 😒😞

So we were supposed to go to the snow in two weeks. My side of the family, my cousins sisters and everyone, my husband and my two toddlers. Well they all have different work hours or maybe that day doesn’t work for everyone, for most of them do and for one family it doesn’t because of how holidays are coming and there will so much traffic, and I understand So now I’m disappointed because I don’t think nobody is going I was so excited for everyone to go I’ve never been to the snow in my life I was ready. Its more fun when everyone goes and stuff. So I told my husband that I don’t think nobody is going anymore because they wanna wait until holidays are over and they can save a little more money because it can be a good expense. Well he told me don’t worry we can still go 💞. But should I wait and tell my husband for us to wait til everything is is cheaper, and holidays are over ? Maybe around January or February (my birthday month) Or should I just go with my two toddlers and husband before this year ends.