Do I tell him or no?

If your bf said really hurtful things that were very obviously offensive (ex. Negative remarks about your body, asking to trade you for someone else) and he had no idea why you were upset, would you spell it out for him?

Like “hey when you make me feel bad for how I look and/or say you’d like to trade me for someone else, it hurts my feelings”

I feel like the fact that he has no idea that what he said upset me just makes me more mad and honestly makes me think that he’s a downright idiot.

Should I tell him? Or let him figure it out?

Any other advice would be great too.

& please no harsh comments about “he can’t read your mind” etc. I strongly feel like this isn’t hard to decipher and I’m just not sure if I should flat out say it or make the idiot figure it out for himself