ladies how do I know if I’ve cum? yeah I get it, I’ll know when it happens, but I do think it is happening bc I’m overcome but sometimes it just feels like I’m peeing and when I do realize there’s a lot more liquid and I’m quite certain I have peed?

sometimes it’s sticky other times it’s sticky and then leads to the peeing situation.... please can someone tell me what’s going on? I’m super insecure about not knowing :\