IVF with insurance coverage?

JL • FET#1: 🌈 Due Aug2021✨ IVF#2: ❄️ 3embabies✨ IVF#1: ❌ 0 blasts. 6 IUIs: ❌. 1 Early MC.

If you have fertility coverage under your insurance what did it look like as far as what you paid out of pocket?

I went for my consult and they can't give me an exact breakdown yet because my new insurance doesn't start until Jan 1 - but the fertility center I go to is technically in network but they don't bill the surgery (retrieval or transfer) to insurance at all - and that is technically "out of network" - so it's $3500 retrieval and $2k per transfer. My insurance next year is a $25k lifetime fertility coverage and $10k fertility med coverage - which I obviously chose the expensive insurance coverage knowing we'd be doing IVF this year. I am wondering if I should get a consult with another fertility center to see if they will utilize my coverage better or if this is the norm? I love my doctor but obviously finances are a huge deciding factor in this.

Please share your thoughts / experiences.