Don’t want to be friends anymore?

She’s a pastors wife and I’ve known her for a few years and and two years ago I told her something really private and personal and she helped a lot. She asked to get coffee and all I said to her before was that I wasn’t dating a really good guy right now. all of a sudden she says you look really skinny are you throwing up? And I kept telling her I didn’t want to talk about these kinds of things, and she would just sit there in silence looking at me until I said something and wouldn’t stop asking personal questions. She found out that I was drinking which she doesn’t agree with and said it leads to things, and that I was raped. She asked what doctor I went to and I just told her planned parenthood. And she said that is not the right place were you pregnant? They do abortions there. I think straight out asking if I had an abortion basically. I think she just thinks I am messed up and a slut. She’s asked me every time I see her about it and it’s triggering. I told her I didn’t want to get coffee for that and she said just to hangout? and like looked away. She obviously didn’t want to do that and said being a pastors wife you hear everyone’s junk. I planned just keeping things private I really am mad at myself I didn’t offer any of that information she just guessed a ton of things and I didn’t say no. I teach a class with her every Wednesday night and I asked if they could switch me rooms. I went to a nice skating rink and she pretended she never saw me. she asked to do another bible study right after that and “forgot” about it for the past two months. She was so so precious to me but I think we should just move on... I didn’t tell her I was upset with her then but other people I’ve talked to know she’s not my friend and I don’t know why I really hate her and feel pretty bad about myself enough already.