Do you feel cheated on of ur partner looks at porn or naked women behind your back?

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I feel cheated bc they fantasize about them and imagine themselves being with that person when they they should be thinking about you and only you! Anyone else feel this way?

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Don't be so insecure. Fantasies are just a means to an end. Looking at something doesn't equal wanting to be in the situation.

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I hit yes by accident I meant no, it's normal

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I'd say it's pretty normal too.. My fiancé checks out other girls all the time.. I don't care that he does because I know who he comes home to at night.. Just as he knows I check out their guys, it doesn't mean that they are going to act on it.. Same with porn, sometimes he's in the mood and I'm not and vice versa.. If you trust each other, there shouldn't be an issue, nor does it mean that one of us isn't doing our "jobs" as a partner.. It's human natural!

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Well, my boyfriend does that (watches porn and looks at good-looking ladies, though he is a respectful ninja and I never catch him in the act!) and I don't mind it at all. And very large majority of men does that actually,  according to studies. 
I know that he loves me and only me - he has proven that through words and actions countless times during our 6-year relationship - but unlike women, men are wired in a way that they just have the urge to look (But another study shows that they don't remember any distinguishing traits of the girl they checked out on the street 7 seconds later.)
So I let that urge be, I am confident enough to know that he is able to have his own sexuality and have desires that he will not act upon - as do I, and most people - and still love me with all his heart. 
He appreciates my trust and that pays off in a self-reinforcing cycle of us having trust in the other and being able to share another level of our sexuality and fantasies that would never have come out if I was forbidding him from doing what he wants (and if he was forbidding me back).

Because we were able to talk heart to heart on these matters and I know how he feels about porn and masturbation (for him it is more of a "release" of sexual tension and a relaxing thing that has no bearing whatsoever on how he feels about me or his sexual performance with me or his love or desire for me), I feel I understand him even more, which is infinitely better than trying to force him to stop (which would only serve to repress him and probably would not last long anyway and would impact our relationship negatively, because when has forcing someone to do or not do something worked out well?) 
In fact, I find it quite appealing and intriguing that he has different side to his sexuality that the one I am used to seeing when we are together and it is definitely fun to discover!

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It is totally normal to feel like this, I've been in your situation in the past, it does make you feel crap, emotions run high, you feel not loved, something wrong with you, it's so materialised now days too, and yes it maybe magazines with materialized women in it that have fake boobs fake vaginas fake everything but the thought of being up against not being that "perfect woman" does play mind games with you! I'm totally with you there, I think it's a matter of talking with your Partner and tell him how it makes you feel uncomfortable, etc it's the only way it can make you feel slightly better about the issue. 
But then on the other hand, it could improve your sex life, and expand trying new things out. It shouldn't have to resort to him being secretive about it though! That can cause trust issues X your not alone x

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In the bible it says or doesn't really say but kinda points towards the meaning of if you're married your body is only meant for your spouse to see you naked. I don't know it would bother me and he knows that..

Do you feel cheated on of ur partner looks at porn or naked women behind your back?

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