Any of you ladies have children who show symptoms of having ADD or ADHD at home, but are for the most part controlled at school?

I have been working with my kid to stay on task with pretty much anything I have him do. This includes sitting the entire time he is eating, having to remind him to chew the has food in his mouth. Follow simple talsks like getting changed without taking 20 minutes. Even reading a small book( he is a great reader,just gets bored easily) I now feel he may have this or a variety of it.

I am done nagging him to stay on task. 😭 I just need to know if there are other ladies dealing with simiar issues