Is it normal to doubt a new relationship with someone?

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I recently just got into a relationship with someone and we keep talking about the future and meeting parents and all that and I love and am excited for it but I then keep having doubts that one day he'll be like I don't want to be with you anymore or he'll eventually find me annoying. I just keep having these feelings but I do really like him...

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I’m also just getting into a new relationship and have these thoughts. Personally mine comes from my last relationship being rather toxic and I still carry anxiety from that. I have to remind myself of all the reasons I don’t have to worry and that I should just enjoy each step of the relationship.

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Get into therapy. 100% abandonment issues, that will cause trouble down the line if you don’t realize where it’s coming from and keep it in check.

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It’s normal if you have BPD 🤷‍♀️

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Don’t avoid red flags. Trust your instinct.

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I think it depends on the doubt. Coming out if an 11 year relationship, it's hard to be certain about anything.