We found out today our baby isn’t going to make it. I was talking to my aunt who is an ObGyn in another state and she told me the most comforting thing since finding out. Her words were “I believe every baby is given to you for a reason and to help you grow and learn. Sometimes it just takes less time and they open your eyes in ways you would never imagine before they make it to your arms.” This was huge to me and i know my baby had a purpose in our lives and while this is the worst thing i have ever felt I’m thankful for the lessons and the time we have had with our baby even if it was for only a short while.