Inner labia is too big

I’m a freshman and I have a boyfriend. I’m too scared for him to touch me down there just because he might get lost in there😭 he’s mature and wouldn’t care about stuff like that BUT I DO. My labia is like a micropenis 🤧 When I wake up it feels really weird rubbing together. If I wear lacy underwear it gets stuck. Ik there’s reduction surgery but it’s expensive so I’ll have to learn to just live like this