Crying on Xmas eve

I’m literally crying in the bathroom on Xmas <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">eve</a> because I had a miscarriage 4 days ago and everyone in our family thinks I should be “over it” because it happens to “a lot of people” 🥺😢 I cant even believe it... even my own mom. I don’t know what to do and how to cope. I thought I would at least have family support. My husband is the only one here for me and two friends (who I don’t want to bother on Xmas <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">eve</a>)