Relationship and baby.

Anybody else feeling the strain of new parenthood on your relationship? I think especially because breastfeeding can be isolating and my husband also works thirds so he's back at work and i'm not yet so by the time he's back home, I'm ready for a little break and he's tired from work and wants sleep so I'm feeling like i'm taking it all on and so i'm feeling alone and he feels like i'm mad at him every day. How do you deal?