I don’t know what to do .... get pregnant or not ? 😕

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Me and my husband always wanted our kids around 3 years apart. We also would love to try next month so we can have an October baby “if we get pregnant” but my best friend just got engaged and now is telling me that she wants  the wedding date 10/10/20 . It’s not 100% yet . I’m just sad because idk If i should wait and try after her wedding or we should do what we want for our family ? 😩😩

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I think the answer is rather simple . Do what you want for your family . Dont put someone else’s possible plans before your life decisions. You and your family come first

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Just like you can't tell her what to do with her wedding, she can't tell you what to do with your uterus. Go for it! Baby dust!

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Would she consider changing her wedding for u? No? Then do what u want for your family. Don’t rearrange your life for someone else who wouldn’t change their life for u lol.

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As someone who kept putting having a second baby on hold because the timing wasn't right and now our kids will be almost 6 years apart the timing is never right. There is always something that may happen or something going on.

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I would not put off my family planning for another's wedding. Its about what's best for you and your family. It's nice you are trying to be considerate, but this is a time to do what's best for you and your family. We can't put our lives on hold for everyone else to make them happy then we might miss out on important moments in our own lives.

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Make that baby girl!!!!

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I wouldn’t put off growing my fault for someone’s wedding. You can still be apart of the wedding if you are pregnant or have a baby.

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I would go ahead! Your chances of getting pregnant the first cycle are low. It took me and my husband over a year to get pregnant. So go for it! And if you’re pregnant or just have a baby by then she will understand!

I don’t know what to do .... get pregnant or not ? 😕

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