ive always been “big” when it comes to weight. definitely wouldn’t consider myself obese, but also not an hourglass figure. i like to eat, and ive come to the realization that, that is okay. i know my limits with food. however, i have a love/hate relationship with myself. some days i think im beautiful, other days i feel as if im a complete glob of disaster. back to the point though, so, earlier i went to get a piece of cake with one of those miniature cinnamon rolls as an ‘off work treat.’ i walk into my room, and the first thing i notice is my SO shaking his head. i ask him what was wrong & he goes on to say “you eat everything in sight, Cassidy. i wasn’t even thinking about food just now” and then proceeds to shake his head again... im not sure if he meant to say it an insensitive, hurtful way like he did, but thats how i took it. as soon as he said that, i instantly walked back into the kitchen holding back tears to put my slice of cake back. once i came back, he noticed the tears in my eyes and told me he cant ever say anything without me being a “cry baby.” i want to talk to him about the power behind his words, but im afraid that maybe i am being just a bit too sensitive & will make a fool out of myself making a big deal for nothing.