I'm so tired of fighting! Need advice please

I can't take it anymore! Everything with my husband is a fight! He points out everything I do as being wrong and calls me selfish and inconsiderate almost every day. He got mad at me because I washed a load of my laundry and didn't do his... then when I try to explain the situation, he just says "quit with your fucking excuses. That's all I hear is excuses. Just listen to my feelings and accept responsibility for making me feel that way".

It makes me feel SO small and like I cant say or do anything right!! Has anyone dealt with this before? Idk what to do?