So I’m a toy virgin, never used any before because I’ve felt that sex with my man is amazing every time and I hardly ever feel the need to play with myself outside of sex with him. But lately we’ve been going through a dry spell, neither of us have had much energy for sex or even foreplay and I’m tired of using my brush handle (don’t judge please 😂). So I’m thinking getting a few toys might spice things up. I’m thinking of maybe a bullet/pocket vibrator (portable, small, and on the quiet side), a g-spot dildo for when I’m going solo, and maybe something that simulates oral sex for women. In terms of size I’m gonna play it safe and get something similar to my man’s length so I’m comfortable. I have a bunch of questions. And I’m hoping to spend around $20-$30 max.

1. I buy stuff on Amazon all the time and it’s been pretty reliable. But should I buy toys from Amazon or online from a legit sex shop?

2. Are there any sex stores/shops you prefer over others? What are they? What do you like/don’t like?

3. Packaging needs to be discreet. I work full time and I’m not always home to pick things up immediately, so I don’t want my Mom or sister picking up a package that’s clearly labeled “ADAM AND <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">EVE</a> SEX TOY” or something like that.

4. What about cleaning? I don’t live alone so I can’t throw anything in the dishwasher

Thanks ladies!!