I’m so frustrated at my boyfriends family!

We have been together for three years now, live together, all that jazz just for backstory.

Now, my boyfriends family Only calls him when they need him to do something, they never call him to say hi, ask him to do anything With them, or communicate unless they need something.

“Can you fix my shower”. “Can you fix the toilet”. “Can you, can you, can you”. I’m sick of it.

So today, a family member calls because another family member lost power. The person who lost power can drive, leave if they want to, and take care of themselves. But he kept getting calls. Yesterday the power went out too but came back on and they made him drive thirty minutes away to go check on them instead of going out there themselves. At first I was ok with it because it’s the welfare of a family member. But he keeps getting calls today! And I’m just so sick of them Only calling him to do things. (Please keep in mind all parties are fully capable of taking care of themselves and driving). So he texts me and says “they keep calling because they are worried” so I replied “if they are so worried they could drive out there themselves”. Then immediately text “I’m sorry, it just frustrates me when they only call you to do things for them”. And he responds, “you ask me to do things too”. And I just got so upset! First of all, I never ask him to do much. Maybe do the dishes, the laundry once in awhile, and once I asked him how to SHOW me how to change my oil because then I could do it myself. I never take advantage of him and for him to think of me as the same as his family really hurt my feelings. I’m trying to be understanding but that really hurt and made me even more frustrated. Ugh, it’s the petty things I guess.