(Ima girl) Soooo I know that tops and bottoms exist in lgbt+ relationships but I want to know if being a bottom literally means you only receive and you don’t give back because how does that work in a lesbian relationship? I get guys bc they’re both getting pleasure but surely the top in a lesbian relationship is going to want some kind of pleasure?

Just curious bc my boyfriend always jokes about me being bi (literally only bc I think girls are gorgeous bc they are and I can appreciate nice things without being threatened by my sexuality) but I wouldn’t do anything sexual to a girl (like to do with their vagina bc I don’t like vagina..) but I told him I’d probably let a girl do something to me (not to sound selfish or needy or anything) so I say well I’m not bi bc I wouldn’t be able to date a girl bc it would just be too one sided and well I don’t like vagina like at all.

Hope I didn’t offended anyone with what I said about receiving from a girl but not wanting to give I’d just like to know if tops and bottoms are strict roles in a lesbian relationship and how that goes for anyone if you’re in one