I miscarried on December 22. I really miss my intimate moments with my husband but I don't know if I am ready for sex. I went to see my doctor today but didn't get a chance to ask her. She had told me I "probably miscarried." Those. exact. words. I am getting blood work done today and in 2 weeks. I explained the bleeding, cramping and clots. We both knew it was coming.. anyways, when would I be able to have sex after a natural miscarriage. I am still bleeding and have that slimy clear discharge so I am not doing it anytime soon but I was just wondering. I was around 8-11 weeks. Blighted ovum.