My husband and I have been married for a little over a year now and have been dating for 3 years prior. He was a healthy weight starting off (approximately 192lbs). I was probably 150lbs then. Stress and time have caused us both to gain weight some but my husband has gained 80lbs in one year! It was not until after we got married he seemed to let himself go even more, and that’s when the snoring happened!

I have been dealing with his extremely loud snoring for a year now and he’s only 26 years old. Since we starting dating, I’ve gained 30lbs total but I am 5 months pregnant right now. His weight has cost us both sleep, has negatively affected our sex life, and has cost us money since he eats so much more than he used to.

He will not stick to a diet. Can’t even cut out just soda (he “tried”). He’s refusing to exercise, cannot cut down on his portions, and will snack throughout the day if he didn’t get enough to eat. Oh and he always eats my leftovers. I’m just dumbfounded! What do I do?! This is hurting our marriage and ruining our intimacy. I still love him very much but his weight isn’t healthy, nor is it helping our relationship. Even his own mother has stepped in to help, but nothing is working. Help please!