I need to vent. I’m in need of your advice and not judgment.

My husband makes decisions before talking to me or when he does talk to me it’s in front of who’s ever it’s about, putting me in the spot of agreeing to something that I haven’t gotten a chance to say no to and I’m fucking tired of it and seriously thinking of leaving his ass for it. The list of things are so long. Example; telling his sister’s husband to come live with us for 3 months. And then coming back to tell me it’s to get them to help with our company (when realistically they’re not best suited for it)

Example #2 I spent over $300 of groceries to make sure when his sister and her family gets here for their 5 day visit, we don’t spend money on outside food for everyone knowing his sister doesn’t offer to pay for anything. I’ve been cooking my ass off everyday since they’ve been here and the minute I’m a little behind on making something, he insists on ordering pizza and I know his intentions are good and doesn’t want me to to stress it but he and I agreed on trying to eat from home to save money and stay healthy. But on top of all of that, when I put every effort and stress to try to cook last minute or put left overs together, he goes out for a kids and guy day out and gets Wendy’s. Paying for everyone’s food out of a nice gesture.

Example #3 he makes the decision to have a beach day and barbecue on their last day to entertain them and asks me if I’m okay with it while they’re there listening to my ‘decision’.

And there’s many more and more from the past. I’m so turned off and fed up with him. His dominance is exhausting and I don’t wanna be around it anymore. I’ve confronted him about it multiple times and he’s always apologetic but an apology without change is manipulation at this point.

Edit: we have a 10 month old together.