2 Guys... What to do?!?

Question

Okay my ex and I broke up recently because of his busy schedule and he wanted time to focus on work and not have a distraction. We decided to stay friends. I started to go out on dates with a new guy shortly after. The new guy is such a gentleman and I like him a lot, but then I went to hang out with my ex as friends and he said he still loves me and wants a second chance to see if we can work out with a long distance relationship, I said we can but that he is basically on square one, since he broke my heart. That he can take me on dates but that doesn't mean we are together, he can see other people and so can I.
 So he took me on a date and one thing lead to another and we ended up having sex... We decided to just forget about it and continue dating and seeing where it can lead and if we should get back in a relationship. So I kept going on dates with the new guy too, and well me and the new guy just had sex tonight.... I honestly don't know what to do... I've only had sex with 2 people before and this is not like me at all... I don't know if the new guy is seeing other girls either by the way, as we are just going on dates and not actually in a relationship. I just don't know what to do, was it wrong of me to have sex with both of them? Should I tell the new guy that I'm also seeing someone else? Please give me some advice

Answer

Did you use protection firstly. If you are not in exclusive relationships this is important.

Also why start back at square 1 with your old ex as in pretending your starting to date like you have never met him. Why not say we can hang out and see how things go but your not exclusive and for now your going to be more cagy with your emotions. Just seems odd.

If you have been clear to both guys it's not exclusive you could be honest and see the reaction. However it would also allow them to do the same as its only fair.

Answer

To be honest, I would forget your ex. He broke up with you to focus on his job and then sees that your with someone else and doesn't like it, but doesn't want to be with you either, I.e sleeps with you to prove he still has a hold over you then. Well tuff! Enjoy the new gentleman who wants to be with you and spend time with you. If you spend your life waiting for the past you will miss out on so much. I also don't think that you can see more then one person while dating, if he isn't it will hurt him that you are.

2 Guys... What to do?!?

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