So I have a back story like every one right and me and my fiancé have always had the stand point of no kids for a couple reasons some of which is my health issues, wanting a wandering lifestyle, and just not a big fan of kids in the first place but he came to me about a week ago saying he wanted to re open the discussion of children so I of course agreed to talk about it because my view point is I don’t have the right to dictate whether or not we have kids just because I don’t want to so we are talking about it and I’m planning to go see my doctor about my health issues to see if it’s even possible for me to carry and we can still have the wondering life style I want just adapted to one more and as it being my kid I will not have the annoyance with it as I do others so I just want other points of views because it is one of the biggest decisions of my life and I want to make sure I’m not just going in blind thanks