feeling disconnected from my husband.

Shay

I’m 18w pregnant and In the past two weeks my husband and I have been fighting non stop.

We got into a fight because I felt as though he has been acting childish, he doesn’t think before he speaks, he also doesn’t validate my feelings.( an example of that is I saw a mouse in our apartment and I was freaking out and told him “I saw a mouse” instead of asking what can he do to help me calm down he says “oh ok you saw a mouse” that’s it.)

Another thing we have been fighting about is that I don’t feel like he loves me (I know I sound crazy) when he was a teen he trained himself to literally not feel any emotion but happy. Like to a point where he Refuses to watch sad movies because he doesn’t want to feel anything like that.

So I told him I don’t know if he loves me or the thought of being with me, he isn’t good at showing me love, I a lot of times have to beg him to compliment me, or while I’m changing clothing I’ll literally beg him to look at my boobs. Like he says I love you but for some reason I don’t believe it.

Again I know I sound crazy, I just don’t know what to do to get us out of this funk.