Now a days, it’s hard for a woman like me to find a man who’s in to the same kinky things that I’m in to, but luckily for me, he found me, and even though there’s a 10yr age difference, he makes me happy. He’s all the things I could ever want in a man... well, almost. We’ve been together for almost 6mo now, and things are great, he treats me like a queen, but he doesn’t fuck me like slutty porn star, which is the way I love it. I mean the first we was ready for that next stage in our relationship, oh..my man rocked my world, he made me tap out 5 times, and 3 of those times was just by him eating me out alone. He had me in positions I never tried before, pushed buttons I didn’t know was there, and had me cumming and having organisms so much I lost count after 5. Had me going home late that night disoriented, but luckily I made it by going like 20miles home. But now that time is starting set into the relationship, that sex is starting to lack, I don’t cum as much any more, it’s not as rough anymore, and once he gets his rocks off, he’s done, and I’m left unsatisfied and wanting more, please don’t get me wrong, I do love him and sex is enjoyable, and he does try to keep things interesting in the bedroom, but it’s still not the hard core fucking that I like so much. What can I do to keep the “ Christian Grey” spice in the bedroom without wanting to run to an ex that I know that can hit all the right spots?