Did I do the correct thing?
I don’t have any friends so I have no one else to talk to about this so please give me some input.
So I haven’t been interested in a guy in a while since of my last heart break years ago.
This guy I’ve been seeing was not serious but I had fun with him for while, we would eat, smoke, and have amazing sex imo
He lives in another town so it takes a lot of gas and mileage to see him
But after a while I noticed I would make the most effort since I would be the one to see him all the time.
Last time I was suppose to see him he canceled last minute because he had a serious issue going on and I respected that
But I didnt make an effort to see him again after that, this time he came to see me
But he spent most of his day with his cousin and it wasn’t till almost night when he came to my house. When he was there, there was moment where he insinuated that I was “ mixing “my guys up, that hurt me cause I wasn’t even seeing anybody else and it made me feel like a whore.
The morning after, I had to go to work - he asked what time I was off and I said at night time, he then became silent.
I asked him if would wait for me, (I figured it would be okay since he could spend time with his cousin too)
He just said “I could but I dont want to “
That hurt, cause I would spend an extra day with him when he asked even though I had work early in the morning the next day because I would enjoy his company. He couldn’t do that for me.
After that, we kissed our goodbyes and went out serparte ways.
I hated myself for biting my tongue cause that’s what I would do in my last relationship, I knew I was developing feelings for him but deep down I know it won’t work out.
I didn’t message for a couple weeks and then he messaged me in the morning asking when I will go and visit him.
I told I don’t know cause he made me felt bad last time since he was being “mean”
He said he didn’t know
And I told him it was partly because I didn’t say anything.
He then responded with “well sorry”
I didn’t respond. He wasn’t sorry, he didn’t even ask why he was being mean. I don’t know if I’m making a big deal about this.
But I think I won’t see him again.
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