A Vanilla Sex Life??

Question

My husband and I have been together for 6 years. we’re 22 and 24, and I want to try and spice up our sex life, I’ve mentioned things like a cock ring, or any toys and he’s like “noooo” “chill” I also joke that I want him to like stuff my panties in my mouth and he just says chill. The most he does is spank me hard and choke me lol. We get a little more crazy when drinking that’s it. Lol. How can I spice my sex up and make him comfortable??

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Talk to him about it and see how he feels and what he's comfortable with.

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Lingerie? That never fails lol. It can open more doors and have him be open to other things?

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I would recommend you guys take the bdsm test and see what you guys are into and implement it overtime

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Adult sex board games, card games, etc. Amazon sells a lot of them. My husband and I love them!

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Be super open about how you’re feeling things are a little dull these days and ask him to come up with some ideas he’s comfortable with trying. If he tries to shut down the idea, explain that it’s important to you.