Long story made short, my mom is a drug addict. She is extremely narcissistic. She has been in and out of my life since I was 8 and completely out since I was 15. No communication, nothing. Last year my grandmother got sick so my mom came to stay with us to say goodbye, during this 4 DAYS.. she stole the cross right off my grandmas neck, stole her pain pills, and broke into mine and my husbands room and stole money from us. We kicked her out and since then have had no communication.

Now I am pregnant and I have taken every precaution to hide it. I have no socials, I’ve expressed to everyone I know to make sure they don’t post about the pregnancy so she doesn’t see. She is a carrier of MRSA and with all the heroin use.. who knows what else she has. I don’t want her near my baby. Well someone spilled the beans. I don’t know who and I don’t know why... now I’m afraid she’s going to show up. I broke my water at 30 weeks so I’m stuck in the hospital for 3 more weeks.. I’m afraid my mom is going to show up. The hospital says I can either have no visitors or allow all visitors... but being stuck here for three weeks I don’t want to not be able to have people visit. I don’t know what to do.. does anyone have any experience with this? I would appreciate some advice.