How to stay positive?

Question

BFN today. :-( I've only just started trying but I'm 35, I get obsessed, and now I'm disappointed. How do people stay so positive?

Answer

My husband and I have been ttc for over a year. We got pregnant earlier this year, but the pregnancy ended in mc art 7 weeks. I keep positive by reminding myself every cycle that this will happen in God's timing. I also think about how excited I will be when I finally get that BFP again! I believe there it's always something we can choose to be thankful for...by focusing on everything you have, instead of everything you don't, you will stay positive and relaxed😀.

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I'm 35 ttc #1 .. OH wasn't keen past few years but is now and that bugs me as I now feel pressured 😔 This is just our first month of properly trying and praying it doesn't take a long time as feel like a failure already! 5 of my close friends have either just had or are pregnant which doesn't help either. Sorry I'v no words or positive thoughts for you but just wanted to let you know your not alone 😘✨✨

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This is my 3rd month trying. The reason I don't get sad is because if I did that would mean I thought it was never going to happen. I truly believe it will happen so for me there is no reason to be sad. If one day I found out I couldn't have a kid then o would let myself be sad. If that makes sense.

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