Ok so my younger brother in law, he’s 20 ex fiancé/ girlfriend is 19 I’m 30. Ok so they had been together for 3 years. She broke up their engagement right after got with another guy then decided to get back together. She hateful and plays victim a lot. One instances I took their prom pics and Bc I told them up front I wasn’t familiar With the area I tried my best and at the end she told my BIL that I ruined their prom. Another time me and a friend I hadn’t seen in forever wnet to eat at the place she worked. I spoke to her but cleary not enough she tells my MIL I didn’t speak to her at all. So fast forward this year my husband refused to buy her a gift Bc she hasn’t tried to text or speak to us. She told my MIL some things that made her mad at my husband so he wasn’t buying her a gift and wouldn’t let me. So she texts and basically is just upset we didn’t get her a gift and her way of trying to be nice is basically telling me how wrong we are and she has no idea what she’s sorry for but is sorry. Like I don’t have time for negativity in my life Bc I have bad anxiety/ depression issues and this situation has me in a funk How am I suppose to feel. Bend over and take it even though I know how rude and fake she is or just smile say hi and go on not try to engage much