Triplets question

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So I just got back from my 8 week ultrasound for my triplets. They are all spin well, thank God. My doctor asked us if we are planning on keeping all three. The thought of "selective reduction" hadn't even crossed my mind. He told me there are many risks and that I need to see a high risk pregnancy specialist. Is anyone else in the same boat or know someone who went through something similar? I am really upset and just needs some encouraging words..