Sooo I have been dead set on not finding out the gender as this is our 2nd and last baby (I think) but I am kind of second guessing if maybe we should find out...

I like the idea of it being a surprise but have no way of telling how to decorate the nursery - was going to do Winnie the Pooh or safari animals but also feel if it’s a girl I will want to change it & too OCD and busy to wait until after baby arrives. Also don’t want to only have gray/yellow/orange/green clothes.

I have a boy already (found out with him) and was wanting another boy BUT my husband wants a girl and has it implanted in my mind that it will be a girl. I will be happy either way but I’m also afraid if I wait I will be disappointed when baby arrives and if that’s true would rather be disappointed now 🤣

Also feel like I have no bond with this babe whatsoever like I did with my son and part of it I think is from not knowing and not being able to imagine him/her.

Anyone not find out what the gender was if they have had kids before?? Or not finding out with this pregnancy? Anyone wanting to wait to find out but decided not to and regretted it later?? I’m so indecisive on this!

If you have read this far... thank you 😂