So to start out, my bf and I lived at mu parents house. He decided to move out well because 1) we were having issues (which have resolved and we are more In love every single day) and 2) he wanted his own place. We have a daughter together so obviously I’m at his house a lot.

At my parents house I have a full bedroom, with clothes, a desk, tv, a bed, pretty much everything there. That is all MINE. We are planning of moving in at the end of this month to save money for a house (im in school currently)

Ever since my cousin and his gf and child moved Into my mothers house, I’ve been Staying at my bfs house nonstop.

Today we are at my parents house for New Years. We are having a couple of drinks and I decided I wanted to wAtch some Hulu or Netflix on my regular ass tv (not a smart tv). I discover that my DVD player is gone. I go into my cousins room and ta da there it is. (I don’t ever do this but because of other events I did go into their room when they weren’t there, just like they do to me and take my shit.)

I’m freaking pissed. If they were to have ASKED To use my shit, I would say yes but the fact that they think they can take whatever of mine just because I’m not there 100 percent of the time pisses me off. There’s been other cases of my cousins gf taking my things claiming it as hers when I try to ask for it back.

Am I being unreasonable?