No sex life

So any one struggle with they’re sex life? My husband is always tired because of work🙄 and only time it happens we’re done within 5 min. I’m so over it. I have tried talking but bees just tired I’ve tried checking everything but no evidence of him cheating. So confused and annoyed. He days I’m too needy but hey I’m stressed and tired from out girls all I want is a bit of fun to🙄 any thoughts? tips?