I've been with the same man for 8 years, since we were teenagers. We have 2 boys together, one 4 Nd the other one month old. The last two months of my pregnancy he cheated on me, not once, not twice but in total 6 times, with different woman, he lied about his whereabouts, lied about being at work and so much more....I've found condoms in the car, his had sex in the back seat of our car were our children sit, hes denied being with me or even knowing me in front of these woman(I called one of the girls not knowing he was with her and he answered her phone and pretended he didnt know me) with the cheating he also verbally abused me over and over to make his actions valid and my feelings invalid. He wasn't there at the hospital when I had my son almost 2 months ago and everytime I had a hospital scare he was never there he was out with other woman. To go through this at 9 months pregnant the time where your spouse to be so happy and stress free is so emotionally traumatizing. I'm having a really hard time getting over it that it effects my everday life, I'm so hurt, traumatized and disgusted that i dont know what to do or how to seek help. Typing this helped me because i don't have anyone to talk to. Any positive advice is nice.